Now, this is a topic which needs extensive coverage.
Because there is no definitive answer to the question “what attracts women to men”
Men have been trying to figure it out for centuries and I will say this much: We have had a certain degree of success in understanding what attracts women to men. That’s the reason why pickup artists have started becoming successful. These guys have finally understood what attracts women to men so that they can exploit that to create attraction inside of any woman.
In order to become good at learning how to pick up women and attract girls, understanding, what attracts women to men, is fundamental. I’m going to try and summarize what I’ve learned myself over the years of studying this particular phenomenon.
Okay, Foundations are laid. Let’s dive right in…
I’ve realized first hand now that teasing and playing hard to get with a woman often gives her what she really wants, what she really craves for subconsciously. For someone reading this for the first time, this may seem a bit odd becuase generally such behaviour is deemed rude and socially offensive. This is the mindset we all need to come out of in order to understand what attracts women to men. It is that teasing and playing that creates hardcore, gut level attraction in a woman.
So, if you want to learn how to attract a girl, you need to start opening up to teasing and playing. In fact, the best part is that once you yourself indulge in teasing, the women will reciprocate and you’ll see signs of attraction from women themselves. Women will start teasing back, start playing hard to get, start reacting more spontaneously. What you are doing is really creating gut level attraction inside her because you now understand one of the fundamental principles of what attracts women to men.
I believe that any guy can learn how to attract a girl, if you’re willing to shake things up a bit, if you’re willing to be shift mindsets and understand what attracts women to men and finally if you’re willing to take action.
Now, I have something outrageous to say:
If you interact with a women long enough for her to form an initial impression of you and she does NOT feel attraction for you, then there is nothing YOU can do about it. You can keep trying to buy her gifts, take her out, please her and a host of other things but SHE WILL NOT FEEL ATTRACTION FOR YOU.
I know it may seem harsh but reality is harsh. Once you understand why building a good initial impression is so key, you have basically understood 50% of the game – what attracts women to men.
Now, check this out.
If you interact with a woman long enough for her to form an initial impression of you, and she does feel attraction for you, then there’s nothing SHE can do about it. No amount of logic will stop her from feeling attraction for you. It is this reason, why even today women still endure neglect and abuse for someone they are attracted to.
So, what then attracts women to men? By now, you’re slowly starting to come to terms with the answer.
Your attitude and behaviour towards the woman, your first impression and your mindset, towards attraction in general.
Why do women feel attraction for some guys even though they may have zero money, bad appearances and zero fame?
BECAUSE THEY CAN’T HELP IT.
What attracts women to men is an unexplainable phenomen even to women themselves. A woman is just experiencing it. She can’t control it because attraction defies logic and is stronger than emotion or reason.
The thing about women is what attracts women to men is different from what attracts men to women.
Being overly nice to women will never satisy them and therefore fails, when trying to attract them.
Now you understand why it is the bad boy types that are able to attract women the best. Cuz they are the teasing, playful type who create distinct first impressions.
For men, attraction usually happens as a response to a beautiful face or beautiful body. For women, it is generally reasons other than purely physical(of course I’m not discounting physical). What attracts women to men is a response to certain emotional cues that get triggered subconsciously in the process of an interaction.
I’ll leave you with a few of David D’s words on attraction:
Attraction isn’t a choice; it’s an evolutionary mechanism that takes over our mind and body long enough to make sure we mate with someone with the best possible genes.
I hope today you gained a better understanding of what attracts women to men. This will help you start reading signs of attraction from women better and accelerate your learning process of how to attract a girl.
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