The age old art of flirting is something that you need to absolutely master if you want to be come good at attracting girls and consistently picking up women. Flirting comprises of those tiny little details that most people overlook or ignore.In this post, I want to talk about being cocky and playful and why it’s such an important component of flirting.
Without talking too much about the abstract, let’s dig into some actual flirting techniques and the why and hows of those techniques. Like I always say, zeduction is a place for no fluff, no bullshit content.
Being cocky and playful is simple really, once you get some experience.
Notice how I didn’t say being comedic or funny. Too often guys mistake cocky and playful for comedic and funny. There is a big difference here which I’ve been trying to point out for ages now, it seems.
You want to use cocky comments to make fun of the girl and make her friends laugh at her at the same time. This ups your social value in the girl’s eyes. You just made here friends laugh at her without even blinking. This is incredibly attractive to a girl because girls are wired to love high social value and oozing confidence. Girls just love challanges. By being cocky, in a playful way, you put yourself out there as the prize, as someone with value. An example of a perfect cocky and playful line would be – if a girl is talking to you and accidentaly spills her drink, you can immediately respond, IN A PLAYFUL MANNER, “Damn, do I make you so nervous that you actually forgot where your mouth is.hahaha.” I hope you get the picture, i’m going for here. Cocky and Playful. Remember those 2 words. Also, DON’T OVERDO IT. You don’t want to come across being seen as an arrogant jerk. This is worth keeping in mind because I’ve seen so many guys fall into this trap before.
While being playful, it’s important to release. Get the girl interested, get into a decent interaction and then walk away. JUST TURN YOUR BACK AND WALK AWAY.It’s called the Hook and release. It’s the release that actually gets the girl attracted towards you. The feeling of losing you makes her want you more. Say something like “Oh my god, you’re from Louisiana. My ex girlfriend was from Louisiana and she was insane. I’m sorry, I can’t talk to you any more” and turn away as you say that. Let her reinitiate the conversation. If you said this just right and made a good impression, SHE WILL REINITIATE becuase now, in her mind, she’s intrigued. She is thinking to herself, who the heck is this guy. No wonder girls love objects
If you brought the girl back home, suddenly out of nowhere come with a pillow and start hitting her. Then come with more pillows and start hitting her some more. As the girl starts getting more and more engaged, simply walk away. “Oh, I’ve had enough. You’re too miniscule. I’m going to the kitchen to get a drink” AND BAM, JUST LIKE THAT YOU THREW IN A PLAYFUL INSULT AND WALKED AWAY. This is highly attractive behaviour. You leave the girl confused and totally intrigued. By doing this, the girl is now going to try and start measuring up to your expectations. She will try and qualify herself to you. That is exactly what we want. We want her to qualify to us, not the other way round. THIS IS WHERE MOST GUYS GO WRONG. They try and qualify to the girl that they have value. NO. You have to come in to the conversation at a higher energy and value than the girl and make her qualify to you.
Being cocky and playful goes a long way in achieving this. Those were just a few real life examples that I gave. Use them if you want, till you can come up with your own ideas. Rememeber, you want to be cocky and playful, not comedic and funny.
FUNNY DOESN’T GET YOU LAID, PLAYFUL DOES.
Keep a lookout for more posts on flirting.
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