Okay. So, we’ve talked a fair bit about how attraction works for women, what signs to look for and why body language is such a key component of the attraction game. We haven’t really talked much about how YOU can push yourself to the next level by consciously choosing to be that SEXUALLY ATTRACTIVE guy all women dream about. Now, I’m not just talking about flirting with her, or being cocky and funny with her or making her feel attraction for you. It’s time to really up the ante by being sexually attractive as a choice, in all your male to female interactions. Let’s dive right in.
The problem for most men is that they are not able to become that sexually attractive guy on a consistent basis. So many times I’ve had people tell me that they were able to turn a girl on that one time but the other 99 times, no turn on. No sexual tension. No sexual attraction. Most guys would admit that it is a lack of sexual attraction due to which they get stuck in the friend zone, time and time again. The key to learning how to be sexually attractive lies in your consciousness. Being sexually attractive is not as difficult as it may seem at first. You simply need to internalize that you are a sexually attractive person and practice certain things as a conscious part of your life and daily routine.
- Most women are attracted to confidence and passion. Too many times men think they are being cute and funny, when they whine or pretend to beg for sex. REMEMBER, FUNNY DOESN’T GET YOU LAID. PLAYFUL DOES. Display confidence verbally and in your body language simultaneously. Often, men will be verbally saying something cocky and flirtatious but with a slightly hesitant, anxious body language. Women catch on to this very easily and as soon as they spot that hesitancy, they run because you are no longer congruent with your own personality. DO NOT HESITATE OR EVER GIVE HER THE CHANCE TO QUESTION YOU ON ANYTHING. If you’re telling a story, then go all out. Display high energy. Don’t hesitate or pause to think what you’re going to say next. Even if you don’t know what to say to her next, keep that confidence and throw the talking back at her while touching her with confidence when she replies. TOUCH HER WITH CONFIDENCE AND PASSION. YOU ENJOY HANDLING HER IN YOUR HANDS. REPEAT THE ABOVE SENTENCE 10 TIMES IN YOUR HEAD AND SEE THE MAGIC. At the end of the day, it’s all about internalizing that confidence and passion. That’s where most guys fail. Since you’re here at Zeduction now, you will not fail. FAILURE IS NOT AN OPTION.
- Men always like women who act girly and feminine and have class about them. When was the last time you were attracted to a woman who acted tomboyish. NEVER.
The same can be said for women. Women like manly and masculine men. This means that you be direct and unapologetic in your actions and desires, both. Now, this doesn’t mean you go off and start acting like an arrogant jerk who doesn’t give a shit about women. Being direct and unapologetic means not being afraid to talk about her or telling her what you want and not being tentative when you do so.
- Another important point a lot of men underestimate is looking directly at her and her body. If you want her, then go ahead and look at her body without shame and embarrassment. This will communicate your sexual desires to her and create sexual tension in the air. DO NOT LOOK AWAY OR LOOK DOWN OR TAKE A QUICK PEEK AND THEN PRETEND LIKE YOU DIDN’T LOOK OR PRETEND LIKE YOU’RE NOT LOOKING WHEN YOU ACTUALLY ARE. This will lower your value in her eyes and you risk falling into the friend zone because you did not communicate enough sexual intent. Men need to take the lead when it comes to sexual attraction and looking straight at her without shame is a perfect way of doing that. However, never ever overdo it. You absolutely cannot keep staring at her body, as if you’re checking her out for longer than 10 seconds at a stretch. This will only freak her out. In general, you want to give a sweeping glance at her entire body for about 5 seconds and make sure that she noticed your glance.
- Always keep in touch with your inner sexuality. This may seem a little vague but let me elaborate. You want to be 100% positive about your own sexual attraction for her and about your own sexuality. This means being comfortable in the bedroom and being comfortable with foreplay and everything that follows. If you have insecurities about your own performance(you’ll be surprised to find out how many men do), then fix it. Study female responses if you feel you don’t know how to give her an orgasm in bed. The idea is to be comfortable with sex. When you’re comfortable with sex, you are not needy and you are the one leading the physical interaction. YOU ARE A SEX GOD. Never make her feel that your ego is at stake in the bedroom and that you need validation from her. This is extremely repulsive sexually and will instantly turn her off. In order to be sexually attractive, you have to internalize the concept that you are a MAN WHO LOVES SEX AND IS COMFORTABLE WITH IT. Your mood and emotions will always affect her mood. Imagine if you were hesitant and shy when it came to being sexual with her, how do you think she will react?
So, go out there and start thinking and acting like a sexually attractive man starting today and see the difference it makes to your interactions with women.
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