How to attract a girl?
A question asked by guys all over the world.
Without beating too much round the bush, let’s get straight to it.
Seems to me that guys everywhere are asking the wrong questions. Traditional social notions are what’s keeping you from attracting a women. You need to break out of social conventions. So, now you’re wondering what I’m rambling about.
Good. At least, you’ve started wondering and thinking.
When it comes to the question of how to attract a girl, it’s not about what a girl wants. It’s about what a girl responds to. This is what most guys need to understand. Before, I start going deep on how to attract a girl,
I HAVE A REQUEST: KEEP AN OPEN MIND.
ALRITE. Let’s continue.
You might have seen a lot of women say that they are attracted to nice guys who are stable, a little funny, have money and so on…. Now answer this question for me- It’s key to understanding how to attract a girl.
How many women have you seen that are attracted to guys totally the opposite of what I described to you.
The answer is almost all of them. You’ll realize that most beautiful women are attracted to the so called “bad guys. “Just take one look at all the supermodels out there dating violent, unstable, rock stars.
Get the picture now. You need to understand this if you want to understand how to attract a girl.
So, What I’m trying to say is that the key to learning to how to attract a girl is to understand the girl first. The story above illustrates that there’s a big difference between what girls say they want and what they’re actually attracted to. At this point, you probably realize that learning how to attract a girl is not rocket science. It just requires patience and commitment like anything else.
Society has evolved and so have girls. This is why understanding how to attract a girl requires a totally new approach.
How to attract a girl then? Here are 3 things you must possess:
1. Girls today no longer respond to kind, ass kissing behaviour where you buy them etc. Instead, this will make them run away from you. You have to learn to demonstrate a strong, solid personality yourself. If you want to attract a hot girl, then you must learn to display high social value yourself, even if you don’t have high social value in reality. You might say this is rather manipulative, but this is attraction we’re talking about. If you want to perfect the art of “how to attract a girl,” then you have to be willing to be a little unnatural. ATTRACTION IS AN UNNATURAL PROCESS IN ITSELF. Guys are not naturally born with attraction as their sole purpose.
2. Another important point many guys just don’t get: ATTRACTION IS NOT A CHOICE. If a women is not attracted to you, there is very little you can do to change it. No matter how much you take her out, buy her presents, it will be hard to get out of the “friend zone.” This is one of bigger problems to learning how to attract a girl. Most guys will pretend or think that they can still attract the girl. That they still have a shot. I’m sorry, you don’t. Instead, why don’t you try and make her feel attraction the very first time you talk. This will be our goal, over the coming few weeks.
3. Attraction works differently for women that it does for men. It is imperative to understand this in order to understand how to attract a girl. Men think that women are the same as them. NO.
When guys look at girls, they see looks first. Everything else is secondary. They see potential sex partners if the girl is even a bit decent looking. For women, personality is more important than looks. Yes, they do judge looks but they look at your personality with more importance. Also, they don’t see potential sex partners if you are attractive. First, they will find out more about you by engaging you and then decide whether you’re possible romantic material.
Understanding this difference is highly important if you want to learn how to attract a girl.
Learning how to attract a girl is not easy and it’s not natural. Too much crappy stuff out there, saying they can teach you how to attract a girl a girl in 3 days etc. All of that is crap as I figured out when I first joined the game to learn how to attract a girl.
Stick around for the next few weeks and you won’t be disappointed. It’s important to cover mindset and basics first. That’s the way I always start. Techniques and strategies are easy, like I always keep stressing.
So, think about what you learnt today and how you’re going to apply it to learn how to attract that girl, in your life.
P.S.- Do sign up for the 10 day challenge. If you don’t, your loss. That’s all I’ll say.