I get this question a lot. Essentially – Why should someone learn and master cold approach pickup? Is it really worth the time and effort? Does it make you a better person? Is it really important, in the grand scheme of things?
Well, the answer in almost 95% of cases is Yes, Yes and Yes.
I want to keep this post short.
As always, finding answers yourself is better than being spoon fed. With that motto, here is my recommendation: Talk to people who have had experience with cold approach pickup and ask them how it has changed their beliefs and behaviors. Ideally, you would want to talk/meet/interact with people who have in-field practical experience and not just theoretical knowledge.
If you cannot find such people in real life, sign up on “Pickup Forums,” like they call it(I personally am not a huge fan of some of these) and simply browse around. Once you see somebody who seems to demonstrate a certain level of progression, by which I mean, “said person’s” game significantly improved, I advise you to personal message them and ask them how their behavior changed before and after game.
When people make significant leaps in their development, they naturally like talking about it. Use this to your advantage. You get the idea…
I could give you all the answers here and ramble on…about how learning and mastering game improves your confidence, conversation quality etc etc. However, That would defeat the purpose and is not the point of this post.
What I gave you above are SPECIFIC, SIMPLE YET ACTIONABLE steps that you could easily implement, thereby arriving at your own conclusions.
What’re you waiting for?
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