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Wondering why Cold Approach Pickup is Important?

I get this question a lot. Essentially – Why should someone learn and master cold approach pickup? Is it really worth the time and effort? Does it make you a better person? Is it really important, in the grand scheme of things?

Well, the answer in almost 95% of cases is Yes, Yes and Yes.

I want to keep this post short.

As always, finding answers yourself is better than being spoon fed. With that motto, here is my recommendation: Talk to people who have had experience with cold approach pickup and ask them how it has changed their beliefs and behaviors. Ideally, you would want to talk/meet/interact with people who have in-field practical experience and not just theoretical knowledge.

If you cannot find such people in real life, sign up on “Pickup Forums,” like they call it(I personally am not a huge fan of some of these) and simply browse around. Once you see somebody who seems to demonstrate a certain level of progression, by which I mean, “said person’s” game significantly improved, I advise you to personal message them and ask them how their behavior changed before and after game.

When people make significant leaps in their development, they naturally like talking about it. Use this to your advantage. You get the idea…

I could give you all the answers here and ramble on…about how learning and mastering game improves your confidence, conversation quality etc etc. However, That would defeat the purpose and is not the point of this post.

What I gave you above are SPECIFIC, SIMPLE YET ACTIONABLE steps that you could easily implement, thereby arriving at your own conclusions.

What’re you waiting for?

Stay Awesome,

Jay

 

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Approaching Women: The 3 Second Rule

Approach women using the 3 second ruleA major problem that ALL guys have is getting the courage to go and talk to the girl. Even guys who claim to be pickup artists have what is known as Approach Anxiety.

In my opinion, this is only natural. After all, you’re being asked to talk to a complete stranger, gain rapport with her and make her feel attracted to you. Therefore, feeling anxiety before an approach is natural. You’d have to be one of those robots, like in the movie I Robot, that simply acts on commands without thinking, to not be affected by approach anxiety.

Today, though, I’m giving you an extremely simple solution to combat all your approach anxiety and get you to start talking to women without over thinking it. A lot of folks complicate this novel system by adding unnecassry components. Today, we’re going to keep it straightforward and simple.
Without further ado, let me give you, THE 3 SECOND RULE. [click to continue…]

How to improve your body language when approaching women

Body Language when approaching womenHere at Zeduction, we have covered a fair bit of general overview on body language dynamics and signs of attraction that women give out.

Now, it’s time to go hardcore and dive into little more specifics.

Approaching women is the first step to having a good interaction and attracting them. Most often, a woman will decide if she’s attracted to you within the first 5 minutes of your interaction. As such you cannot blow the approach. If you blow the approach, your chances of coming back are blown out of the water. Understand the body language of how to create a perfect approach however, and you’re already halfway there to attracting her.

I must warn you though that learning how to approach women requires patience and practice. Apply what I’m telling you and practice as much as you can, using as much knowledge of body language as you can. That’s the only way to get good at attracting women.

Okay. Let’s dig in…

In general, approaching a woman from her side directly is frowned upon.  [click to continue…]

Interacting with a girl the right way… and what you are doing wrong

How many times has the following happened to you?

“You were interacting with a girl and then suddenly you started hesitating about what you were doing and what move to make next. ALL SORTS OF QUESTIONS STARTED POPPING IN YOUR MIND and slowly you lost the flow of the conversation.

Now, you probably aren’t the only one. This happens to guys all around the world.

It’s called freezing and overthinking, or rather, not thinking the right things, as I like to call it.

Okay, I want to keep things simple in this post and force you to think about your interactions and how you can improve them.

BOTTOM LINE NUMBER 1- YOU ARE ALMOST ALWAYS BEING TOO SERIOUS IN ALL YOUR INTERACTIONS WITH WOMEN.

A lot of people ask themselves questions which instead of improving the conversation, make it more serious, dull and ridiculously nerve wracking.

I’ve seen too many guys out there absolutely over thinking themselves to death.

“Will she like me?”  [click to continue…]

The Three Keys to Improving Your Sex Life

A complaint that women often have is that the sex wasn’t good enough. Women have been programmed to love sex. In fact, researchers say that women love sex more than men and I believe that to be true. Every woman has high expectations as far as sex is concerned. If you can give her everything she wants, she will never run away from you. I can guarantee you that.

AS A MAN, IT IS YOUR JOB TO DELIVER IN THE BEDROOM. YOU ARE THE ONE IN CONTROL and as such YOU CANNOT GIVE EXCUSES.

I break down the entire sexual interaction into three well defined areas: COMMUNICATION, TECHNIQUE and ATTITUDE.  Master these and you will have the most fulfilling sex life ever. So, let’s get right to it.

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